Pura Vida (pronounced poo duh vee duh). A word commonly used in Costa Rica to say hello, goodbye, cool, all is good. Simply translated, it means “Simple Life.” Costa Rica has been named one of the “happiest countries” in the world. Why? Because Costa Ricans or “Ticos” don’t stress about things the way most foreigners do. They are happy with what they have.
My life a year ago was far from Pura Vida. I can tell you that with all honesty. The word, stress comes to mind instead. Stress around my job, my marriage, my children (more on them later), our bills, kids growing up too quickly and missing out on their life, etc. My husband and I looked at each other one day and said blankly to each other, “What are we doing?”
It was about a year ago today when my husband started inserting the phrase “let’s move to Costa Rica” ever so casually entered our conversations. When I would start complaining about something to him, his response would be “this might not happen if we were living in Costa Rica.” When we were talking about virtually anything, somehow someway the idea of moving to Costa Rica was part of his response. After the first few dozen times, I quickly dismissed it or gave him a quick smile to show I heard him and then moved on in the conversation. It wasn’t until a few months later that I actually heard him, as if it was the first time, he mentioned it. Funny how the subconscious works.
I finally agreed to indulge his “fantasy” by agreeing to a vacation there, after all I had never even visited the country. I think he booked our flights before the words came out of my mouth!
It was a whirlwind vacation. We coordinated house/condo showings
with a local realtor for 4 days of our trip. You can imagine how unenthusiastic
my kids were to be dragged from condo to condo when all they wanted was to play
on the beach. It was made up to them in abundance on the remaining days, trust
me.
We left that vacation without making an offer on a place. I left that vacation knowing this was what I needed, what WE needed as a family. I returned home to Golden, CO and almost immediately started the decluttering/packing process. Now, up until this point in our lives, our house in Golden, CO had been our home for almost 10 years. Do you have any idea how much “stuff” one can pack into a 2800 square foot house? The answer is A LOT! That decluttering/packing process took well over 6 months. A long over due accomplishment I might add. Repeat after me, I will never pack rat (aka hoard) again, I will never pack rat (aka hoard) again.
During those 6 months of packing hell, we bought a condo in Costa Rica. A 1200 square foot condo! Small yes, but…. ON THE BEACH! YES! We decided on a move date in early summer and that was that. We were ALL IN! This was happening. Our new reality was just 4 months away!
Were there obstacles? Yes. Were we scared as hell? Yes. But this
is what we all decided would be the plan, at least for 2 years.
Fast forward to our arrival in Playa Potrero, Costa Rica
(Guanacaste region). Took a red eye here. ACK, I despise red eye flights. Our
container, which included our car, wouldn’t arrive for another few weeks so we
did a lot of walking. Walking to the Merkado (grocery store), walking to
restaurants, etc. We found out there are a lot of ExPats (folks from USA and
Canada) living here which made our transition a lot easier.
We made it. We were pinching ourselves daily to make sure it
wasn’t a dream. Was everything perfect when we arrived? No way. But our new
life was just beginning and what a long strange trip it had been to get here.
We are Making Life Happen!